Lucky to Know Him

It was just over 3 years ago that I met Manti Te’o. It was probably 11 PM, and he walked into Nick’s Patio, a local late-night hot spot that attracts droves of hungry undergrads. Some football players were grabbing some late-night grub after the beginning of the first week of preseason camp. Recognizing Manti from the über-hype, I approached him and asked him for his autograph. I wished him the best of luck starting his career.

When I returned to my table, I told the people I was with that that kid was going to be great.

We didn’t have a profound conversation or talk about football, but I could tell that anyone who had been the talk of ESPN recruiting analysts for months and still carry himself with humility and class would be a perfect storm for a college program. And he has proved to be over the last 4 seasons here in South Bend. Te’o has proved to be a star on and off the field. Te’o will garner much attention as an almost certain first-team All American this year, but that’s not even half of who this stout Hawaiian is. As a Notre Dame student, he has been an active member of his dorm, community service within the athletic department, and a devout member of his church, the church of Latter Day Saints. Notre Dame Football Coach Brian Kelly calls him a “once in a lifetime athlete,” and Athletics Director Jack Swarbrick says he epitomizes everything a Notre Dame student athlete should be.

And this pillar of the Notre Dame community has endured great heartache in the last week. As has been well documented, his grandmother and his girlfriend both died last week. Suddenly the anchor of a defense, and in many ways, a student body, has needed people to lean on. And people have responded. Friends and “foes” (opposing fans) have reached out to Te’o offering prayers and support for this loyal son Notre Dame. And certainly, we at Play Like a Champion Today® echo those sentiments. To be put through such a trial during a year that should be marked by success and fun is no easy task, and Manti is dealing with it with pure grace. When a reporter asked him after the Michigan State game that the Irish won 20-3 could have gone better, he responded "Yeah, I could call my girlfriend right now and talk about the game.” He continued, "but I've just got to get on my knees, say a prayer and I can talk to her that way.”

Through this incredibly tough time, I, an ND grad, am tempted to say that Manti Te’o is lucky to be a Notre Dame student, and to have the love of so many peers that is a hallmark of the this school. But getting to see how this young man reacts to adversity, success, pain, and glory lets me know that we are the lucky ones to call him friend, player and brother.

Making History

I remember in 9^th grade history class, we had a many lively discussions about historical figures. Mr. McNamara would challenge me and my classmates on a continuing theme throughout the year. When we would encounter a major historical figure, he would ask us: “Did this person make history or did history make this person?” Not having seen much of the world at the in my rather ordinary 14 years on the planet, it was hard for me to recognize who was a real difference maker, and who was merely in the right place and right time.

But any teenager could tell you that this football season, Erin DiMeglio is making history. She is the first female to play quarterback for her high school team in the state of Florida. And for anyone familiar with football in the Sunshine State, you know that they come suiting up in the south is no cake walk. Teammates call her a hard worker, and coaches and fans know that she is not taking any handouts on her way to success on the gridiron.

Growing up in a country where the only legitimate option for women to play professional televised football involves suiting up in a bra and panties, you would think DiMeglio might opt for a sport that values women’s athletic talent, rather than merely their physical appearance. But Erin obviously isn’t the type to have history make her. She pursues what makes her happy, and that’s why she is the type that makes history.

Erin DiMeglio is not trying to prove anything grand. She’s not an advocate, not a politician, and the only agenda she has is the one that she writes her homework in. She’s just a natural athlete, who loves football. She’s not concerned so much with buzz words like “barriers to entry” or “trailblazer.” She’s wanted to play the sport she loves, and now she is doing it. So while she may be laying the foundations for generations of young girls, she is teaching us something more universal, and no less significant: follow your dreams, and have fun. DiMeglio is not only living a life that future women will be inspired by, but one that inspires me as a fan, reader, and person.

Erin is making history the way most greats do: by doing what feels natural, despite any sort of societal pressure that might discourage that (keep in mind there are over 1 million boys playing HS football in America, and 700 girls). Like others, her legacy will be felt for generations, and people will admire her courage. But DiMeglio enjoys an impact not all history-makers enjoy: she’s changing the life of everyone who reads about her today.